How to be successful in dating
Are you hoping to find a lifelong commitment, or someone to hang out and have fun with for a few weeks or months?It is equally important to figure out what you have to offer.By not caring about dating, I don’t mean playing hard to get.
Giulia Simolo Giulia is a freelance writer living in Johannesburg, South Africa.Going into dating with this mindset prevents you from expecting people to make you happy or solve all your problems. The best thing about not caring about whether so-and-so sticks around or not is that you live life your way.Part of this is having healthy boundaries, but the cool thing is that they happen naturally when you focus on having a life that makes you happy.For example, if you can’t see the guy on a Tuesday night, you don’t jump through hoops to try to change your schedule.You do what you need to do, and if he’s worthy of your time he’ll be cool with that. One of the biggest problems with dating is that you enter into it thinking that you have to sell yourself.
Maybe you were trying to impress him so you spent half an hour crafting the “perfect” text. When you stop caring so much about trying to be perfect, you stop sending out those vibes.