It does not mean you are still in love but rather you are witnessing the evidence that your spouse now has someone else in the place you used to fill.
Though you may not understand the feelings you are having, they are a natural part of moving on after a divorce.
It’s not an accident,” says Catherine Tucker, a therapist in Sacramento, California.
The questions you should ask if that happens to you include: “What do you want to do?
When you meet someone new, you will have a better perspective on how your ex is feeling about you and the relationship you both once had.
Most people are puzzled as to why they are jealous of someone they didn’t want in their life any longer. This was your spouse, you expected fidelity, and now it may feel like cheating to see them with someone else.
Remember what you think and what you feel can sometimes be at odds, but it’s perfectly normal to feel some jealousy and even look for things to criticize in your ex’s new partner.
Despite my wish to appear mature and chill, I have a strong distaste for the ex-wife.So, when you feel jealousy or discomfort over your ex dating, remember that no one can really take the same place in your ex’s life that you had. When that time comes you aren't going to waste time worrying about who your ex is with.So, keep in mind how unique you are and that you will also have someone new to share your life with one day. Letting go is a process, and it will take some time and effort to get there. Why not start not worrying about that now, instead of later?Each relationship between two people is different, and what you had together during your marriage will never be reproduced with someone else.The special things you had together were unique to the two of you.
Every time you experience a negative reaction to your ex dating, stop and go through the list of reasons you are no longer married.